"I Don't Have Instagram" Just Became a Flex. If You Can't Afford to Say It, You're Stuck.
The richest people are leaving social media first. Newsletters and reading clubs are the new status symbols. But if you're a freelancer or small business owner, logging off is a luxury you can't afford.
Nearly a quarter of Brits deleted a social media app in the past year. For Gen Z, it's almost a third.
They're trading Instagram for vinyl records. TikTok for lunch dates. Doom-scrolling for reading clubs. The trend has a name now: "going analog." And it's all over social media, ironically.
But here's what nobody's saying out loud: the people leaving first are the ones who can afford to.
The New Status Symbol
Matt Richards, a 23-year-old account manager, deleted all his social apps last year. He told CNBC he noticed something immediately.
"We're definitely seeing a trend where people that are offline, unreachable, have a sort of cool factor around them," he said. "This person doesn't need validation."
Five years ago, having 10,000 followers was the flex. Now? Not having Instagram at all.
Newsletters replaced feeds. Podcast communities replaced comment sections. Reading clubs replaced algorithmic recommendations. The people who used to signal status through follower counts now signal it through absence.
"I don't have social media" is the new "I summer in the Hamptons."
The Trap Nobody Mentions
But Richards has something most people don't: a salaried job with built-in visibility. He doesn't need Instagram to find clients or prove he exists professionally.
Julianna Salguero does. She's a 31-year-old social media manager. She wants to leave too. But she can't.
"When you spend too much time in that world, it's rewiring your brain," Salguero told CNBC. She called going analog a "quiet revolution."
Revolution for some. Economic necessity for others.
Flo Bellinger, a writer at Thred, put it bluntly: "logging off is easier if you already have a seat at the table."
If you're not already established or financially secure, social media isn't optional. It's infrastructure.
Freelance graphic designers need Instagram to showcase work. Writers need Twitter/X for editors to find them. Small business owners need Facebook to reach local customers. Job hunters need LinkedIn because that's where recruiters live.
Delete your accounts, and you don't just lose an app. You disappear from the informal economy that now governs cultural relevance.
The Numbers Don't Lie
A 2025 Deloitte survey of over 4,000 Brits found nearly a quarter of all consumers deleted a social media app in the previous 12 months. For Gen Z, it jumped to nearly a third.
Social media use dropped about 10% since peaking in 2022. Adults 16 and over now spend around two hours and 20 minutes daily on platforms — down from over 2.5 hours two years ago.
The decline is sharpest among the youngest and oldest users. The ones in the middle — people aged 25-45 trying to build careers, grow businesses, and establish themselves — they're stuck.
Economy Class Internet
Here's the class divide nobody's talking about: social media is becoming the economy-class internet.
First class passengers — people with money, established networks, existing reputations — can opt out whenever they want. They have email lists. They have Rolodexes. They have agents and managers and publicist contacts.
Everyone else? You're in coach. And the seats don't recline.
Lacy Stace, a 36-year-old entrepreneur, is limiting her social media use despite it being "essential to her business." She knows it's hurting her mental health. But what's the alternative?
"We are just inundated all of the time with so much information," she told CNBC. "Our brains aren't capable of handling that much information."
She's right. But she also can't leave. Not yet.
The Irony of "Offline Luxury"
An industry report from Insight Trends World declared 2025 the year "offline became the new luxury."
"The truly wealthy now measure richness in time, not attention," the report said.
Beautiful sentiment. Also deeply unequal.
Time is a luxury. Attention is a commodity. And if you're selling your services, your art, or your labor in 2026, you can't afford to withdraw your attention from the platforms where buyers live.
The romantic vision of the offline creative — writing novels in a cabin, unreachable, disconnected — belongs to people who already made it. Everyone else is on Instagram at 11pm responding to DMs from potential clients.
What Happens Next
The exodus isn't stopping. People are buying flip phones. Building record collections. Joining book clubs that meet in person.
But watch who's leaving and who's staying.
The ones who leave first will be the ones who don't need it. The ones who stay will be the ones who can't afford not to.
And when opting out of something becomes a status symbol, that thing has officially become a trap.
Social media started as the great equalizer. A way for anyone, anywhere, to build an audience and reach people without traditional gatekeepers.
Now? It's becoming a digital underclass. A place you're stuck if you can't afford to leave.
The truly wealthy, as the report said, measure richness in time.
The rest of us are still trading time for visibility. And the platforms know it.
Sources & Verification
Based on 4 sources from 3 regions
- CNBCNorth America
- ThredEurope
- Deloitte UK Consumer Trends SurveyEurope
- Insight Trends WorldInternational
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